Dear Medicine
Lake Ward,
It all began so
innocently when we saw a “senior couples needed in China” listing in the “Senior
Missionary Opportunities Bulletin.” After an interview with the Bishop, another
with the Stake President, the application form being submitted, and a little training
at BYU, we find ourselves living in Xian China, a Chinese city of about 8
million people. Our living circumstances are modest, adequate, and the same as thousands
of our Chinese neighbors –with one very important difference – a regular
western toilet. While we don’t have an oven or a dryer, and while central heat
does not come on for a few more days, we have a small fridge, 2 burners, and
all the hot water we want.
We are assigned
to Northwestern Polytechnical University, one of China’s top aeronautical, astronautical,
and marine engineering research universities. The university has about 12,000
undergraduates and about 12,000 graduate students. About half the students take
classes on the campus we live on. It is
more like a compact, stately, tree filled University of Minnesota campus than a
new more spread out BYU campus. Besides the academic & administrative buildings,
the campus also contains housing for all the students, the entire faculty and
their families, and all the retired faculty. The university also has the top
elementary school and the top middle/high school in Xian – each with about
2,000 students. It is more than interesting living in the midst of buildings
with names such as Moon Exploration Building, Combustion and Thermal Structure
Building, and National Laboratory of Solid Rockets.
We really like
our neighborhood and community. The campus is about 3 square miles and we
live right in the middle. Whether we want to shop on or off campus, eat on or
off campus, catch a bus or a taxi, go to a bank or an ATM, we really are
located perfectly. There is also a “new” campus about an hour away where we
actually teach. The fall weather has been beautiful. About as perfect of fall
days as possible. The sun is shining beautifully. It is especially nice seeing
the mountains out by the new campus – we take the bus an hour to teach our
classes there.
We love what we
are doing. In a general sense, it is exactly what BYU prepared us for. In a
specific sense, it could not be more different. Every day is truly a new
adventure and we awake every morning wondering what our new Chinese adventure
will be today. When things get a little dicey, as they sometimes do, we always
are so gratefully amazed by the tender mercies that are provided to move us
forward. Thank heavens those mercies always appear.
Our teaching
schedule is regular, demanding, and rewarding. We could not be more stretched
nor blessed in the process. One big surprise is we are required to have a twice
a semester, out of class, 6 person English interaction with each student in the
freshmen, sophomore, and senior classes of the English department. It is a ton
of work. Last night, for example, we had groups of 6 & 7 students over for
a home cooked American meal at 3, 5, & 7 PM. We had some over Friday night
as well. What an interesting pleasure. It is so great expanding the
relationships outside the classroom. Besides loving our students, the Chinese in
general have been wonderful and helpful. Unlike the big coastal cities, there
is little English spoken in Xian. But the people are delightful and do all they
can to help us – and we do need help. We are making wonderful friends.
Here is an
interesting one. We only teach English majors. The first day of their freshman
year they are put into a class of about 22 students. They take EVERY college
course over the next 4 years with the exact same students – the 22 go as a
group from class to class. As a result they are very much like a family with a
tremendous loyalty and affection for each other. They behave toward each other
much more like a large BYU FHE group or a great Mormon family than the kind of squabbling
disjointed group you might expect in America. Great students, great kids, great
human beings.
We are amazed at
the unusual things constantly coming up. This past week, for example, we were
asked to interview 20 professors and 30 advanced degree candidates who want to
attend professional conferences, primarily in America. The University wanted us
to ascertain if their English is good enough to justify the university covering
their expenses. It was interesting to say the least.
We walk 3-5 miles
every day just to do our regular routine. Some days it jumps up to 7 or 8. We
might grab breakfast from the cafeteria food cart out front of our apartment
and spend 45 cents. We might eat in the student cafeteria for any meal and
spend 90 cents. We might get really extravagant and spend as much as $1.25. If
we eat fancy at a restaurant off campus we will spend more like $2-4 dollars.
If we decide to do Subway, McDonalds, or KFC, it will be $4. At those prices,
it is hard to cook a meal when the cafeterias are so close. The only
complication is the food is generally very spicy but we are adjusting. Between
the price of food and the university providing housing, the cost of being here
is very modest.
Chinese politics
constantly enter into daily life. Last month we were restricted to campus, or
even to our apartment, at various times because of protests going on related to
the Japanese actions regarding a contested Chinese island. Our originally
bullet proof, wonderful internet and IT connectivity of the first weeks has also
been a huge complication the past month. The government has throttled back the
internet leading up to the current leadership meetings.
There are 22 American
Mormons here in Xian and we are organized into a small branch. Chinese citizens
MAY NOT attend our services and we are prohibited from actively or passively
proselyting. But for sure, this is a country very close to being ready to be
opened. It will be an amazing event. This is a very family oriented society
where love of family is much more widespread, deep, and open than you see in America.
It is very touching to hear about it from our students and observe so obviously
in daily life.
We are far from
home and like most senior missionaries miss our parents, kids, and grandkids.
Yet our lives are incredibly fulfilling as blessings are being poured out upon
us. We are so grateful for our experiences and for the obvious hand of the Lord
in our lives.
Love, Ann & Paul
PS Come visit us. We have an extra
bedroom and would love to show you around.
PPS As I listen to the piano being played in
the apartment above us right now, I am reminded of how much we enjoy the girl
upstairs practicing her piano, practicing her basketball dribbling, or practicing
her jump roping in the room above our office.
Loved it! So what do you feed them when they come over for meals? I'm wondering what american yumminess you whip up. Chocolate chip cookies and burgers?? ;)
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